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When the Past Shows up in the Present
When we go through something painful or significant, especially early on in life, our minds do something very natural. It forms beliefs. Sometimes these beliefs are not necessarily conscious ones, we don’t actually sit there and decide on them. Instead, they are more like quiet conclusions we draw about how people or the world works, and what to expect from situations that feel familiar.

Debra Chimwala
4 hours ago


Understanding a Breakup
Understanding the why behind your distress doesn't make the pain disappear, but it can turn down the volume on the shame. If you’re in the thick of this withdrawal, be as patient with yourself as you would be with someone recovering from a physical injury. Healing
isn't about flipping a switch; it's about staying the course through the fade.

Katie Borek, MSW, RSW
May 5


Radical Acceptance: How This DBT Skill Helps Manage Overwhelming Emotions
Radical Acceptance : a DBT skill for distress tolerance Have you ever been in a situation and felt an intense wave of emotion overwhelm...

Melanie Grell
Feb 13, 2025


From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion: How to Get Started
Self Kindness
When you are in a difficult situation, try being as caring toward yourself as you would be toward someone else.

Melanie Grell
Dec 8, 2024


Understanding Your Relationship Patterns: Insights from Attachment Theory and The Strange Situation
Have you ever wondered why you react the way you do in relationships? Whether it's with friends, family, or romantic partners, our...
Aligned Minds
Jun 12, 2024


Sitting in the Feelings: Understanding Processing Our Emotions
It's easy to get caught up in the idea that if we're not constantly relaxed and happy, there's something wrong with us. Society tells us...
Aligned Minds
Jun 10, 2024


7 Tips to Navigate the Holidays Alone
The holidays can be a tough time, especially if you're spending them alone and dealing with feelings of anxiety or sadness. It's normal...
Aligned Minds
Dec 8, 2023


6 Things You Need to Know to Set Better Boundaries
Setting boundaries is important maintaining good mental health and nurturing healthy relationships. Boundaries help clear guidelines and...
Aligned Minds
Sep 22, 2023


Self-Care: What is it Really?
In our fast-paced world, mental health has taken center stage as an essential aspect of overall well-being. Amidst the daily hustle and...
Aligned Minds
Jul 24, 2023
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